Sunday, July 15, 2012

Again with the Changes....

Had I done this a several years ago, the personal and financial landscape may appear far different.
For the first change, I had to reflect back to a conversation with Aunt Lou at Christmastime in 2009. When in a conversation about returning to drumming turned to equipment, I said I would probably have to upgrade. Aunt Lou came back with with the comment that the set she and Uncle Harry bought me back in 1969 was a very cheap set, and probably couldn't be restored.
Upon years of reflection since that comment, I finally sold these three drums last month. Someone else now has the charge of rehabbing them. They were just taking up space in the storage unit anyhow - as they had done in basements and attics since the early 1980's. Why was I holding onto them anyhow? I DID keep the snare and Cymbal Uncle Harry bought me, however.

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Another change....

Locked away in storage for the last 18 months - and virtually unused for the 12 months preceeding that....

...The dining room set. While the buffet above was gathering dust and debris in the basement for the last 15 months, the table and chairs (below) were disassembled and stored in a storage unit.



Was I using them? NO. Was I likely to any time soon? Not hardly, I should think. For one, I don't have a large enough place. I can barely afford to live where I am at now, for goodness sake! Then, after some lengthy contemplation of the 6 month rule... I decided to part with them as well.  Sure... family heirloom and all... Nevermind... stick to the 6 months rule.

What's the 6 month rule? Have you used it in the last 6 months? NO? Have you missed it? WILL you likely use it again in the next 6 months? NO? Will anyone from the family want it? Use it? Be willing to pay the storage for keeping it? NO? Then why do you KEEP it?

In doing so, I have eliminated about 25% of the space used in the storage unit. I have begun the task of bringing home the Album Collection... which I WILL use. As will I use the Stereo.... if it still works.

Of all my kids, only Michael has expressed any interest in any of the things I have stored. So... he'll get the Star Trek stuff... ALL of it... including the Betamax and all the series tapes.

In the end, I have begun DE-hoarding and reduced the monthly outlay as the storage unit can be downsized. In the end, most of my hoardings will be parted with. I may keep the tools, but soon the rest of the stored CRAP will be gone.

I'll always have memories and photos...
... but without the family homestead.... I mean, REALLY... why keep the family homestead furnishings?


Monday, July 02, 2012

WHAM!!!

Today was a day like any other.
Sitting back at the end of the day, a sudden flash back.
Sea World.
A place that no longer exists.
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Another flashback... Geauga Lake.
A Great time...
...and another place that no longer exists...

A feeling that rushed back...
A relationship that no longer exists
A time gone by - as long as 10 years ago
...a sudden memory that brought with it... memories... a boat load of them...
... floodgates of warmth flow over me...
... the hollow depression of loss that follows...

... then... something happened.
The feeling of loss subsided. Faster than it had ever before.

Weirdness!

Maybe I have finally turned the page.