I see all these Facebook memes regarding revenge for a cheating ex.
I suspect my revenge has already been played. Why? The same little birdie who first chirped about Jude's departure later sang again when she dumped Jamie. Two weeks later, she chirped again stating Jude found a new guy, and another two weeks when their engagement was made public.
But all that chirping wasn't the dead giveaway.
It was our first Christmas here. Heather received a very lengthy PM from Jude wanting to contact me. Allegedly, I'd left things behind...??? I refused and then two weeks later chirpy bird PMs about the break up with Jamie. Heather was worried Jude was trying to get me back.
I am a slow learner at certain things. Perhaps I just needed space to distance myself from her as well as the event. But now, that's exactly what I think happened.
My silence, coupled with no reaction whatsoever was exactly what was needed at that time, and how i hope i w Bruggemeier all play my cards from here, on.
Well played...
