Friday, May 22, 2020

Additional Signs

Like a  bouncing ball that makes more contact after each bounce,  Heather has been letting things slip more frequently.  

After purchasing her computer she toyed with the idea of speakers and chose headphones. She also uses them on her phone now when she doesn't want me to hear.

Yesterday,  she let slip that she WAS going to Randy's on Friday. coming here for her eye exam, and afterwards if she felt she could see, ho back "home" to him later Saturday for the rest of the weekend.  She claimed earlier that she wanted to be there to give me my space,  claiming Randy was going to be in Columbus all weekend.  However,  in the past she also said she could never live alone, (so I guess he IS home).

Also, in the past days she's gotten nails and hair done and Randy likes her that way. I think he's home this weekend.  

Last Tuesday,  she came in to my room stating she was worried that she hadn't started her period. She said she can't be pregnant because he's fixed. .. uh huh

Last week she went on and on telling me that she had never had a meeting of the sexual minds with anyone before Randy.  She's never had a lover like him. Well, why brag to me about it? I'm not Dear Abbey. 

She also said about a week ago that Randy wants to take her away on vacation after this coronavirus is over.  

Two or so weeks ago she said she wants to tell Sallie about Randy.  She feels that she needs to tell Sallie.  I thought at the time that it might backfire on her plans for custody  and Heather then agreed. 

Just days ago,  she suddenly began dumping Facebook friends.  WHY??? Unless she's getting Randy jealous by having so many.  PLUS there were at least 4 people she borrowed money from after her layoff. One guy she claimed gave her $2000. Why, I wonder...
 Payment for sex? She did that before. 

She's also spending money like crazy. All sorts of trinkets and things,  computer and desk, clothing,  stuff for Sarah.  A windmill and yard art. Paid off her car. Making noise about paying down the attorney fees.  

July is the court date.
Sallie has to follow up with the GAL to restate her preference.  I don't think she will. Randy offered to go sit with Heather in court and at first she said no. My guess is that things have changed. 

A LOT!!!
The next months could tell if I am moving soon. I'd better get prepared