A bit of background...
As mentioned previously, Heather's been making noise for six months about her need for sexual release.
I listened to her complaints, and then listened to her sexploits.
I listened and listened.
Her guilty feelings eventually betrayed her. Using the facts I pieced together by listening to the fragmented facts she did reveal, I found Randy Nygeris (close to his last name's spelling), of Berea, OH.
I didn't want to know. Now I am quite sure. The final bit of info, just today was about his Phone. He posted verbatim on his page just days ago, and I found traces of Heather's likes and responses on his page, including a very recent reference to a baseball game attended.
She wanted to talk this evening
I kept saying I don't want to know, or hear anything. She persisted, so I told her how this has impacted my life:
1. It now limits where I can go take photos.
2. It now limits which bands I can see and where. He and I have multiple overlapping friends.
She said it doesn't matter. No one knows. If I was able to put two and two together, others will too. I don't want to face another public outing like with Peg or Vicky when Jude went public with Jaime.
I know his name, where he's from and i know who his friends are. Some are VERY GOOD FRIENDS of mine.
While I'm quite proud of my powers of deduction, I'm also realizing the limits now placed on me.
When I revealed my findings, she finally revealed herself. Last week, she broke down and cried. It wasn't for me as she feigned, and neither was tonight's tears. In 3 different instances, she's shown she's developed feelings for him. Both times crying and when, in her bragging, she stated he better NOT be screwing someone else!
Her abilities to cover are getting more and more frail. And honestly, I'm beyond jealous. I wouldn't want her back sexually now at all. That opportunity is now gone.
God, I hate the idea of moving those albums again....
