1980-Don Cerino asking me when I was going to marry Nancy. I subsequently proposed.
1985- April 1st. Flirting with the new salad girl. I didn't conquer her, but that night got head elsewhere, which enabled the Michelle incident later.
1994-While in California, I came extremely close to having an affair after drinking in the sun with the front desk girl for the office. This triggered my spontaneous affair with Michelle starting 2 months later, and ultimately triggered Nancy's catching us.
1985- Nancy became obsessed with my talking to any girl. She spent money like crazy in the next 4 years, leading to the bankruptcy and divorce. Yes, I cheated. But her obsessed behavior and telling her family caused our divorce as much as anything else.
1998 - In many ways I wish I never met Marybeth. Those rendezvous we had lead to about a dozen affairs during the last year of our marriage. Ultimately it lead to meeting Cheryl.
1999 - I wish I was stronger so not to have moved in with Cheryl. ThT lead to 2 years of unhappiness, divorce and another bankruptcy.
2005- 1.I wish I never pursued the transfer in death deed. It lead to the 2009 bankruptcy.
2. I wish we didn't drink so much (Diana and me). I might not have endured her looking elsewhere.
2008-Cheryl part 2
2014- Although lonely, I wish I'd never have pursued Jude.
2016- I wish my ego would have dropped the idea of Heather.
